I'm chill about my kitchen. Totally relaxed. Just don't waste food unnecessarily. Or put empty boxes and containers back in the fridge or cupboard. Or throw recycling in the trash bin. Or, shudder, use metal utensils on nonstick surfaces. And thank you for not using soap on my baking stone or cast iron. That's how it works for me.
Above all, keep loving one another earnestly, since love covers a multitude of sins. 1 Peter 4:8 ESV